Dating Tips for Men-
So today I'm going to share a very simple dating tip that will
instantly pump up your phone game...
It's called:
'Sit Like A Pimp'
Yeah, you read right, but bear with me for a minute.
Just before you call a lady you may be
interested in (or perhaps she's calling you) it is extremely
helpful to sit down, and get into a comfortable 'Pimp-like' physical
position. If you are not sure what that looks like go watch
'Hustle n' Flow' or turn on BET.
The key to finding your own personal inner Pimp is one thing: Comfort.
Physical comfort is your guage. I personally like to lean back, stretch my
legs out, and take up as much space as I want.
If you have a plush couch or comfy chair (or anything really) go ahead
and give this technique a try RIGHT NOW. Maybe grab a rocks glass and try it with a
drink in your hand if it helps. Practice it until you've got it.
Phase 2: Now call a girl you've been interested in, but make sure you are 'Sittin' like a Pimp.' Stay in position throughout the phonecall and notice if and when you begin to reflexively change into a less comfortable position.
What you will probably find is that this new 'Pimp-like' physical position is going to accomplish two things:
A) It will automatically put you into a more dominant and relaxed frame
B) It will help to relieve any excess anxiety you may be experiencing over calling her.
Remember: If you are really physically relaxed, it is a lot harder to experience emotional distress.
WARNING: Do not take these kind of dating tips too far! The exercise is 'Sit like a Pimp' not 'Smack her in face if she don't got my money!'
Have Fun,
Julian